A goal is a wish until something can be seen happening.
Write what you want to change, and then the part that actually matters: what has happened when you have tried. How many times, how long it lasted, what went wrong the last time. This page reads that in your browser first — free, before anything is charged — and tells you what it found.
This is not therapy, not a therapist and not medical advice. It is a planning tool. It cannot know you, it does not diagnose anything, and it will not write a plan about your safety, about someone who is frightening you, or about a goal that is really a medical matter. If any of those is what is going on, it will say so and point you somewhere better.